Pinsi ｜ Leading cadres should get used to being criticized.
With the political ecology becoming clearer and clearer, people generally feel that criticism among comrades in some places and units is becoming more and more common, and the "spicy taste" is also increasing. This should be a good phenomenon. In this regard, some cadres never adapt to it, never get used to it, and gradually get used to it. However, many cadres are uncomfortable and uncomfortable after being "criticized", feeling at a loss, unaccustomed, and even bitter.
People have all kinds of habits. "Habits are to the soul what blood vessels and veins are to the blood, and they are the way for it to flow.". Habit is an attitude and way to adapt gradually through accumulation. People’s habits are good and bad. It is human nature and instinct, and it is also a bad habit to like to listen to good words, praises and even compliments rather than harsh words and critical voices.
In reality, once someone criticizes them, some people scream, their buttocks can’t sit still, their faces can’t hang, their hearts can’t hold back, and they look like a tiger’s ass can’t be touched; Some people are used to going in one ear and out the other, but they just go in one ear and out the other. Some people are extremely resistant and disgusted with criticism. They feel that they have a hard time with themselves, are disgusted with themselves, take revenge, have a refusal and rejection attitude, and even the original red face has turned into a face, become angry from embarrassment, and turn their faces to deny people; Wait a minute.
Being used to being criticized means being uncomfortable.
Once upon a time, being a cadre was a very comfortable and beautiful thing. It was often carried, coaxed and held, with flowers and applause everywhere, which also made some cadres consciously or unconsciously develop the habit of being on cloud nine, feeling dizzy and feeling good about themselves. Criticism, on the other hand, is directed at the faults, shortcomings and problems of others, and it is "finding fault", which will make people embarrassed and even "make a fool of themselves" objectively, and it is undoubtedly uncomfortable and not easy to accept and adapt to this kind of "criticism". Everyone loves face, cares about their own image and reputation, instinctively resists and rebelles against criticism, and it is normal to be uncomfortable when being criticized. However, "because we serve the people, if we have shortcomings, we are not afraid of being criticized and pointed out."
In particular, if we are a little uncomfortable and uncomfortable, the people’s comfort will be better, their satisfaction will be higher and they will feel better about us. Since all our struggles are to make the people satisfied and happy, why not exchange our discomfort for the comfort of the people and our discomfort for the satisfaction of the people? With this kind of mind that would rather be uncomfortable than uncomfortable for the masses, and would rather be uncomfortable than dissatisfied with the masses, you will be calm when you are "criticized."
Habit of being criticized is habit of being supervised.
"A gentleman does not look at water, but at people." People need supervision, and criticism is "mirror on people", which is the best supervision. With this kind of supervision, people will be "trembling, like walking on thin ice". It is lucky not to hear flattery, but it is dangerous not to hear criticism. Reality shows that the person who criticizes you is your "enemy" today, but your friend tomorrow; The person who flatters you is your "friend" today, but your enemy tomorrow.
In recent years, some officials who have fallen off the horse have talked about their problems in their confessions. If someone had bitten off all the "ears" with a big drink, punched a palm, or even "bit their ears", they might have alerted themselves, or they might not have slipped further and further. Those successful people also said that along the way, those who praised themselves don’t remember, while those who criticized themselves are impressed and fresh in their memories. One can’t live without criticism and self-criticism, so one can’t make progress. Criticism is a normal blood circulation, without which there will inevitably be stagnation and illness. It is not terrible to expose shortcomings, but dangerous to protect them. If you have a correct understanding of criticism and fully see the benefits it brings, you will be happy, willing and used to being criticized.
Having a clear mind is more important than having a smart mind; Having a good habit is more useful than having a familiar skill. "For the weapon of criticism and self-criticism, we should use it boldly, often and well enough, making it a habit, a consciousness and a responsibility, so that the more we use this weapon, the more clever it is and the more effective it is."
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